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Starting Point

Starting Point

How Soulmates Begin

Gottman Got Divorced

By the early 1990s, John Gottman could predict divorce with 90% accuracy. He knew the patterns that make marriages fail. Then his first marriage ended despite everything he knew.

With Julie, something was different. They applied everything his research revealed. They decided to become each other's soulmates through daily choices. Decades later, they are still together.

What This Dimension Covers

  • Identify connection pattern - Five ways couples come together
  • Detect positive illusions - Mild vs large fantasy gaps
  • Identify attachment style - Blueprint from childhood
  • Track conflict blueprint - Patterns inherited from parents
  • Grieve fantasy, embrace reality - Disillusionment process
  • Build soulmate through choices - Gottman's six practices